Poems about the death of a child cannot undo this tragic loss, but they can give grieving parents hope or offer support. Each parent and family member feels differently about the loss of a child and there's a poem out there for each experience.
Loss of a Child Poems
Grieving this loss is an individualized process that can be captured in poetry about losing a child. These poems for grieving parents and other close family members and friends speak to feelings of anger, sadness, grief, despair, and even acceptance.
Losing a Child
By Michele Meleen
Losing a child is inexplicable to all, a story with no plot points.
Grief Is Like a Parade
By Michele Meleen
Grief is like a parade whizzing by in waves of noise.
Some moments I laugh, in others I cry, at times I see nothing at all.
I'm waiting for my child to pass waving from a float up high.
That moment never comes, and the parade end passes by.
I'm left standing alone, not knowing where to go.
The Death of My Son
By Michele Meleen
He'll always wear a cape, always wear a crown.
My little superhero, the king of my heart.
The death of my son feels tragic, like a story with no end.
My baby boy, my little man,
I don't know how or when, but one day I'll see you and feel whole again.
The Death of My Daughter
By Michele Meleen
The death of my girl, the death of our dreams, no more tutus to twirl, no more girl power anthems to scream.
They say girls are sugar and everything nice, and my daughter was sweet as can be.
Without her, I'm not sure how to be me.
Inspirational Poems About Losing a Child
Parents and family members experiencing the death of a child often need inspiration to help them get through each day. These poems offer hope and comfort.
Like a Butterfly
By Michele Meleen
A caterpillar born, then hidden as you grieve, then despair flies free.
A Prayer for My Lost Child
By Michele Meleen
My child is my shepherd I shall love always.
My child lies with me in all my dreams, leads me to be still and restores my soul guiding me on my path of grief.
Although I walk through a valley of tears
I will not forsake my life for you are with me.
You memory and gentle voice they comfort me.
A Place for You
By Michele Meleen
My child, I keep a place for you where no one else can see.
I have this gift nobody has the bond between you and me.
At times I cannot feel you here and that pain won't go away.
But when I search my place for you, you're with me every day.
My child, you're not lost, you don't need to be found.
I've got you here, in my heart, where we're forever bound.
Poems for a Friend Who Has Lost a Child
If your friend has lost a child, it can be impossible to find the words to say to them. These poems show your support for them and acknowledge that the situation is heart-breaking.
I'll Hold Your Hand
By Michele Meleen
I know it hurts beyond understanding not having your child's hand to hold.
I can't change this life for you, my friend, but I can be your hand to hold.
I Can't Replace Your Baby
By Michele Meleen
My dearest friend you've lost something I simply can't replace.
I'd like to run into heaven to bring your child back down.
If I could I'd hold him here so you could touch his face, feel his warm embrace.
As your friend I want to save you from waves of tears you drown, but all I can do is say for you I'll always be around.
My Friend, You'll Find
By Michele Meleen
My friend, you'll find in this dark time lights that flicker and sometimes shine.
My friend, you'll find your baby's smile to light your way every once in a while.
My friend, you'll find through tear-streaked eyes a blur of light that shines in mine.
My friend, you'll find this life without your child harder than I can know.
But in the dark, my friend, you'll find lights surrounding you aglow.
And should you need to bask in light reach out your hand and I'll make you bright even if it's only for a moment my light will help you orient.
Famous Poems to Turn to When a Child Dies
Poems by famous authors or that ring true for lots of grieving parents are often used in funeral programs, on gravestones, or on keepsake items for grieving family members.
- When Baby Souls Sail Out by Ella Wheeler Wilcox describes how unnatural it is for a child to be separated from their mother saying "What scenes of peace and rest/Can bring content to one who went/Forth from a mother's breast?"
- Edgar Guest makes a plea to God in I'll Lend You for a Little Time a Child of Mine with phrases like "But should the angels call for him much sooner than we'd planned./We'll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand."
- Sometimes by Colleen Ranney speaks all the emotions a parent feels after the death of a child with imagery such as "My child, my heart...when I see a smile/I can't help but think of you."
- Ron Tramer writes an ode to the lost child in Teardrops saying "Teardrops are falling./We embrace this sad day./A sweet little baby has just passed away."
- In Just for Today-For Bereaved Parents author Vicki Tushingham shares "Just for today I will accept that I did not die when my child did."
Poetry With Hope and Empathy
Losing a child is arguably the most difficult circumstance to live through. While you can't take away the pain of this tragic loss, poetry about the death of a child can help you explore and embrace your emotions as you grieve.
